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Jul 19Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Sorry to hear this Marie, but know you're not alone, and I for one can resonate.

Take your time, and only write and share what and when feels right. 💛

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This comment section is why I love Substack 🧡

Wholesome and supportive.

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Jul 21Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Thank you for sharing, and I agree - wholesome and supportive is a good way to describe the ethos here :)

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Jul 19·edited Jul 19Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Sending you lots of strength, stranger on the internet.

Was reading today (The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control) that balance doesn't exist. It's a myth. Life always happens. Unforeseen circumstances are the rules, not the exception. We can't fit life on a to-do list, and people who say they can do it (aka hustlers) either lie or are emotionally stunted.

Just a reminder from a fellow stranger: take your time and be kind to yourself.

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Jul 19Liked by Marie Vandoorne

So sorry that life is so tough right now Marie. Take care of yourself and I’m sending you positive vibes and healing. ❤️‍🩹

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Jul 19Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Feel better soon Marie ❤️ I totally get it, I'm the very same and I have often wondered how people keep spinning the hamster wheel when life is throwing boulders at them. Do what feels right for you, at your own pace. Love & light ✨️

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I am writing about how hustling makes me feel unsettled and there is an alternative way to live the life which has its own drawbacks. But trying to live that kind of life is soothing for my drained out soul for now. So I’m embracing the slower version of life right now or as long as it would last. And it’s okay if you didn’t do anything for the past few days. Things that matter and people who know you will wait for you no matter what.

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Wishing you recovery and peace ❤️

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Jul 20Liked by Marie Vandoorne

You're generating a bigger audience than me and I've been writing for almost 18 months as well on Substack. So, good job.

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18 months? Holy cow.

Keep going, Joshua 💪🏻

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Jul 21Liked by Marie Vandoorne

thanks.

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sending you hugs, Marie - things do eventually get better

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Love you Marie

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Jul 21Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Thank you for your honesty. Vulnerability is so hard for people today. It’s encouraging to see a healthy example as I seek to become more vulnerable in my writings as well.

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Jul 20Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Yes, taking care of yourself. Yes, to shifting your priorities.

We’ll be here when you’re ready. Take all the time you need. 💕💕💕

Thinking of you.

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Jul 20Liked by Marie Vandoorne

Wishing you all the best, Marie! Take your time. We’ll be here. 🧡

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Hope you’re doing ok 🩷

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Marie, I'm sorry you have had it rough lately. Like you said, living in the present is a good goal. It might lift the burden of all you are going through. Just take your time and take care of yourself -- Substack readers aren't going anywhere. Sending virtual hugs.

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Jul 20Liked by Marie Vandoorne

So sorry to read that life is not treating you well these last few weeks. Ive only been reading your stuff for a while but you seem like such a lovely genuine person and I hope things improve for you soon. Take care, and don't forget it's ok to take a step back and take things easy for a bit. 💖

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I hope you get through this soon. Hugs! 🤗

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