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Nina Medić's avatar

Very refreshing post! Really appreciate the honesty here. I wish more people would just admit it's hard to find your way here. And that it doesn't mean you'll succeed if you just apply the rules that worked well for someone else... You just have to experiment and find what works best for you!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Exactly, Nina, spot on!! Thank you for reading 🧡

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Dr. Cristina Imre's avatar

Totally with you on that.

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Alexis Mera Damen's avatar

Welcome back, Marie. I work about 4 hours a day so lemme know if you want some tips! ;) Was actually thinking about writing a little something about it, but more related to productivity traps. I’m excited to see how you get on!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Write that article 😍 super curious about your tips! I would love to read it!

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Alexis Mera Damen's avatar

Good to know! ❤️

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Sam Messersmith's avatar

Did you write up anything about the 4 hours work day? Would love to read it!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Yeah!! Me too 😍

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Alexis Mera Damen's avatar

I haven’t yet! But will in the future! I don’t want to steal Marie’s thunder here, but I’ll eventually write about it via my Substack called The Cool Aunt.

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Malisa Vincenti's avatar

Amazing! I really appreciate your honesty about your experience. It really resonated with me. I tend to be on the delulu magical side of things - but I also understand that it’s also work - so there’s a balance between the delulu and taking action in this reality to make it happen. That’s my jam - exploring the intersection between those two things. Keep on, keeping on - your writing is inspiring those of us that are a few steps behind you!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Malisa!! And I think you are spot on, it's the balance between the delulu and action taking 🧡 love that wording!

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Sema Karaman's avatar

I love everything about this article ❤️

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Sema 🧡🙏🏻 means a lot!

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Tim Suddeth's avatar

Thanks for the insights. I’m looking at starting on Substack and I have no idea what that means. Sounds like you learned a lot in one year. I wish you the best in 2025.

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Tim!! Do your thing here on Substack, and you'll find out what it means for you 😉

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Lucy Werner's avatar

Something about this post the algorithm loved you as you were at the top of my box today. I know last year was bumpy for you in many ways. I really enjoyed reading this and couldn't agree with you harder. The hardest bit I think is keeping going when you seem to be going backwards and keeping the faith. I too set really big goals for myself but don't quite have the self-acceptance you have yet. I need to take a leaf from you and be kinder to myself.

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Lucy. This means so much to me, especially coming from you 🧡🧡

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Lucy Werner's avatar

I got you 😉 here if I can cheerlead with anything when you are ready.

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Ben Detalle's avatar

Congrats on closing out your year-long promise, Marie.

Here's to what comes next! (And I look forward to following your journey).

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Ben!! Means a lot 🧡

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Lexie Forbes's avatar

This is honestly so inspiring! I just started on Substack and I’m growing quickly and grateful but I just want to be sure that I use my platform wisely and make it profitable while also staying fun. I’ve created online businesses before and I’d love to sustain my biz through Substack and this gave me hope! Thanks for your kindness, your vulnerability in showing your excel sheet, and your raw advice!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Lexie!! 🧡 And congrats on your own journey! Sounds inspiring as well 😍

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Lexie Forbes's avatar

THANK YOU! <3 I’m doing my best and seeing where it all leads but posts like this make me more hopeful so thank you for sharing your story with us!

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Hege Kristoffersen's avatar

Thank you for this honest review. I find your path inspiring and I’m sure many agree with me. ✨

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Hege, truly means a lot 🧡🧡

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Verena Brunner's avatar

Thanks Marie for sharing your journey! I love your honesty in your writing! It inspires me to take actions out of my comfort zone 😇

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Verena, your words mean a lot to me 🧡🧡

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Neil's avatar

Pretty new to Substack, and just discovering you now. What a great read, really enjoyed it. Going to go back and start from the beginning of the journey

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Neil 🧡

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Angela K. Nickerson's avatar

This is a wonderful summary. Thank you! I'm only 1 month in, so I'm glad to see what a year may look like. Cheers! And congratulations!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Enjoy your Substack journey Angela 😍 thanks for reading!! 🧡

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Lizzie Mulherin's avatar

I love your experimental approach to it all, Marie! I believe you were one of the first writers I happened upon when I joined a few months ago - it's very cool to be along for your journey <3 Excited to see what's next! x

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Ooh thank you Lizzie! So cool to read 😍 hope you'll be sticking around for a while longer 🧡

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Anna's avatar

I appreciated how you included your rule or habit: one article published on Friday by 6 p.m. CST. Something like that might work for me. Formulas—I’ll just say ‘no’ to that notion. I believe I'm better served by keeping my goals modest.

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Yup, exactly! It took me a while to realize that ! Thank you for reading Anna 🧡

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Cathy Jacob's avatar

Congratulations. It sounds like a successful year on all fronts!

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

It was indeed!! Thank you Cathy 🧡

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Tanja's avatar

Nice journey recap. I am glad you are deciding to continue on.

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Marie Vandoorne's avatar

Thank you Tanja! I'm glad too 😁🧡

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